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ICADV Newsletter:  Spring/Summer 2001

An Update on The Legal Institute
by Cheryl Howard, Executive Director
Illinois Coalition Against Domestic Violence

 

Goals of the Legal Institute

The Legal Institute of the Illinois Coalition Against Domestic Violence (ICADV) began in September of 1999, with a generous grant from the U.S. Department of Justice. Staff includes the Director, Peggy Jo Patty, an attorney with 18 years experience in domestic violence law, and the Project Assistant, Sandy James. Prior to its creation, there was no place to provide state-wide legal technical assistance (TA) related to domestic violence, divorce, custody, and support issues.

Accomplishments to Date

The Legal Institute has had a very productive 18 months by providing TA, trainings, and contributing to ICADV’s web page. The Institute’s ability to provide TA and training to legal advocates from local domestic violence programs and to all Victims of Crime Act (VOCA) and/or Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) attorneys had the largest impact throughout the state. Prior to the existence of the Legal Institute, ICADV staff with no legal training answered 49 TA calls and provided seven regional trainings to 200 participants. Since its inception, the Legal Institute staff has responded to 658 TA calls. More than 50% of these were answered at the time of the call; the majority of the remaining requests were answered within 24 hours. The Institute Director provided 16 regional trainings to 574 participants. Among the legal issues covered were divorce, child custody, and visitation. In addition, the Institute trained “Trainers” who provided seven regional trainings on order of protection basics to another 235 participants.

Illinois does not have one uniform order form (Order) for orders of protection. Patty reviewed a sample of protection Orders from approximately 50 counties. She found that more than half of them did not meet statutory requirements and she brought this to the attention of the Judge who serves as the Co-Chair of the Illinois Family Violence Coordinating Council.

 

NEGOTIATING WITH BATTERERS
IN ORDER OF PROTECTION CASES, OR 
ANOTHER WAY TO GET THE BETTER OF THE BATTERER

by Suzanne J. Schmitz and Sheila J. Simon*

 

Introduction

Why would a Victim's attorney or advocate ever want to negotiate with a Respondent in an Order of Protection case?  Because it is often the best way to obtain the best result for the Victim!

 

The situation is far too familiar - the Victim has an Emergency Order of Protection and hasn't seen the Batterer since the night she left the home.  You meet the Victim, who is your Client, at the Courthouse before the hearing.  She is nervous because her sister, who had witnessed past abuse, was not able to get off work to testify.  You can see your Client stiffen when the Respondent walks into Court.  The Judge, although courteous and understanding of domestic violence issues, has a full morning docket and doesn't want to hear long, tearful stories.  In these scenarios your Client may be a big winner if you can negotiate an Agreed Order with the Batterer.  Your Client is relieved of the stress of a Court Hearing, and she runs no risk of losing.  The Judge will be thrilled to save time on the case, and the Abuser is more likely to live up to an Order he agreed to than an Order that is imposed on him.

 

There are some situations in which negotiations will occur between Respondents and Victims' Attorneys or Advocates regarding Orders of Protection, and we offer some practical tips to those who will be negotiating with the Respondent.  The following negotiating tips involve a female Victim represented by an Attorney or Advocate and a Respondent who has been served with a Protective Order. The Attorney or Advocate then meets with the Respondent at the Courthouse prior to the Court Hearing.

Negotiation Process

Every negotiation consists of the following phases: a) Assessment and Preparation, b) Exchange and Persuasion, and c) Ending the Negotiation and Getting the Agreement in Writing.  The Assessment and Preparation Phase of the negotiation process allows you to make the most of the opportunity for your client.   You can prepare for negotiation in the same way that you prepare for a Hearing - by understanding the decision makers and how to work with them.  In this type of negotiation, the Preparation Phase, is probably the most critical, because the other phases may take place in minutes.

 Assessment and Preparation

At Your Office

As an Advocate or Attorney, you can take advantage of the time before the Plenary Hearing date to prepare for negotiating with the Respondent.  You will probably have most of the information you need about both parties and the court system.  You know how badly your Client needs the Order of Protection, and you can anticipate what difficulties she will face in Court.  You may have some information about how the Respondent will react to the request for an Order; for example, you may know whether he is required to carry a weapon for his employment.  You also have knowledge of the Judge -- will the Judge listen patiently to your Client's story or will he quickly cut her off?  Or, having gone before this Judge on other occasions, you might know that the Judge is unpredictable.  Finally, you know some of what may happen to your Client if the Order is not granted for example whether your Client has an alternative place to live and a way to support herself.

 

After you have completed your assessment of the case, you can plan a negotiation strategy with your Client.  Explain your factual assessment of the case to your Client so that she can correct any misinformation or add anything that might be missing.  Explain that negotiation often involves decision-making, and the decisions can be tough ones. Your Client might find herself in the position of having to make decisions under very tight time pressures just before the hearing.  That is why it is crucial to have your Client understand her options, well before she goes to the Courthouse.  For example, if the Judge in the case is known to reject restrictions on visitation, it is not wise to insist on a Court Hearing for restrictions on visitation.  Instead, try to negotiate these restrictions.  Plan with your Client the limits of your negotiations.  If your Client's safety would be compromised by the Respondent having access to the residence, plan to end the negotiation if he insists on access.  Make sure the client understands what you will be doing on her behalf and that you are not going to make any decisions for her.  Remind your Client that she is in a position of holding some power.  She filed the case, and she is the one who will speak to the court first.

 

At the Courthouse

At the Courthouse, just prior to any negotiation, summarize for your Client the strategy you will use.  Remind the Client that negotiation is worth trying, but it is not the only option.  If all else fails, the Judge is scheduled to hear the case.  Secure a safe and comfortable place at the Courthouse for your Client while you talk with the Respondent.  Don't forget your own safety while negotiating. Try to find a location where the Respondent can speak with you in some privacy and where you will feel secure as well.  The bailiffs or other court staff may be of assistance.

Exchange and Persuasion

The first step in the actual negotiation is to introduce yourself to the Respondent and let him know that you are the Advocate for the Victim.  Ask the Respondent if he is represented by an attorney.  If he is not represented, a good way to open the conversation is to make sure that he received the Petition for an Order of Protection.   Often the Respondent will use this opportunity to let you know, in great detail, exactly what he thinks of the Petition.  With some Respondents, you may need to encourage them to talk by asking whether they know what will happen today or whether they have any comments about the Petition.   Listen to him carefully, because you may gain some knowledge that will allow some room for agreement, or reveal some misunderstanding that can be resolved prior to the Hearing.  Even if no agreement is reached, you now have a better idea of what the Respondent will say in Court, and you can further prepare your Client for the Hearing.  So, avoid interrupting him or arguing with him at this time.

 

After the Respondent has had his say, identify any areas of possible agreement, and let the Respondent know that an agreement can be reached and presented to the Judge.  For example, he may say something about wanting contact with the children.  If so, advise him that your Client wants to make sure that he has contact, and she has a visitation schedule that she would like him to consider.  After he indicates what he will agree to, if anything, tell him you will confer with your Client to let her know what has been discussed.  You may shuttle back and forth between the two as parts of an Agreement are worked out, term by term.  This process might take some time, and it may be useful to let the Judge know that you are working on a possible settlement, so that the judge may consider granting you extra time.  Most Judges appreciate efforts to try to resolve a case and will make accommodations to promote settlement.  Make sure you use any time responsibly, and don't abuse the privilege of that extra time.

 

Various negotiation techniques exist that can be used to persuade the Respondent.  From our experiences, we believe the most persuasive tactic to employ, in the context of domestic violence cases, is that of listening and finding common ground.  Offer the Respondent's suggestions back to him with some possible modifications.  If there is no room for common ground and further exchanges, it may be best to move to the courtroom for the Court Hearing.

 

Ending the Negotiation and Getting 
            the Agreement in Writing

If possible, even when there is no agreement, try to end the negotiation on a note of agreeing to disagree.  If there is an Agreement, reduce it to writing in the form of a proposed Order as soon as possible.  Have a draft Order with you so that everyone involved in the negotiations can understand the terms, and pencil in some details as you go along.  When the negotiating is completed, make the final changes to the proposed Order.  Give each person time to read the proposed Order.  Explain to your client that she will give the proposed order to the Judge, and that the Judge may ask her if she has agreed to its terms.  Make sure the Respondent knows that he also may be asked the same question.

 

Before or after the Judge accepts the Order, let both parties know that they have retained some control over their lives, as opposed to letting a Judge make their decisions.  Letting both parties know the value of a negotiated agreement may help to reinforce the Respondent's willingness to abide by the Order.

Ethical Issues

Attorneys must comply with certain ethical rules.  Most of these rules are based on common sense considerations that apply equally well to non-attorney advocates. 

 

As noted above, it is critical that Advocates ensure that the Respondent is not represented by an Attorney.  If he is represented, you should negotiate through the Attorney, whom will most likely be easier to speak with because the Attorney has less of a personal interest at stake. 

 

A second concern is respect for the confidentiality of information given to you by your Client.  Lawyers and domestic violence Advocates are prohibited from divulging client information without permission of the Client.  Thus, be sure that in planning for the negotiation, you have obtained permission from the Client to disclose information you and your Client agree needs to be disclosed.   Under no circumstances should you release information that endangers the Client. 

 

As noted above, only the Client can authorize any settlement.  Do not go outside that authority, without seeking the Client's express permission.  If in doubt, take a short break and reconfer with your Client.

 

In presenting information to the Respondent and exchanging proposals, avoid lying or misrepresenting any fact that is material to the negotiations.   Attorneys cannot lie or misrepresent facts material to the negotiation.  The same guidelines are good for Advocates.  

 

No one but the Prosecutor can speak for what the Prosecutor will do, so threats to file or drop criminal charges may be seen as mere bluffs.  Lawyers are not permitted to threaten criminal prosecution to get a good result in a civil case.  Non-lawyer Advocates will maintain a good reputation by using the same practices.

 

In negotiating with the Respondent, take care that you do not convey that you are in any way his advocate.  Be careful not to suggest to the Respondent that you are looking out for his interests or have any loyalty to him. 

 

Also avoid telling him what the law is because this activity may be considered the practice of law.  You may explain the courtroom process, but not what ruling the Judge is likely to make or how the law applies to this case.  If he asks about the law, tell him to ask a lawyer or the Judge.  Although it is often the practice that domestic violence Advocates prepare the Order of Protection for the Court or assist the Victim in preparing the Order, nothing in the Domestic Violence Act specifically authorizes Advocates to do so.  Some persons consider the preparation of legal documents, such as court Orders, the practice of law.   The safest course is to ask the Judge, in advance, if the Judge will complete the form or if the Judge wants the parties to do so or wants the Advocate to assist.

 

Conclusion

When it is advisable to negotiate a resolution with the Respondent, Advocates and Attorneys must be thoroughly prepared so that they can negotiate from a position of strength.  They will counsel their Client and obtain authority to negotiate.  In talking with the Respondent, they will listen carefully to gain information useful to obtain an Order agreed to by both parties.  Be sure to present the Agreed Order to the Court as soon as possible before the Respondent changes his mind.  Obtain an Order that includes the terms of the Agreement.  When negotiation with the Batterer is not in the best interests of the Victim, prepare for the Court Hearing!

 

*Suzanne J. Schmitz is an Associate Clinical Professor at Southern Illinois University School of Law where she supervises a mediation clinic.  She teaches a course in alternative dispute resolution that includes negotiation.  Sheila J. Simon is an Assistant Professor for Lawyering Skills at Southern Illinois University (SIU) School of Law and was the staff attorney for the Domestic Violence Clinic at the School of Law